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December 24, 2013

Sex, Happiness And Love

          SEX.... The ultimate feel good. Sex, that thing that drives both men and women wild. Sex, what drives both men and women into a frenzy. Sex, the word itself conjures up images, there is the sex drive, sex appeal and sexiness. Sex to a man like myself, conjures up images of a beautiful woman in my bed, in her birthday suit, her arms around me as she presses her breasts into my chest,shortly after I had inspected her most treasured things and gave them my personal stamp of approval. Aaarrgghh, makes everything feel oh so good. Don't it though?                                                                                                   
          The sex drive is what makes us go to work.To stay alive,[1]- To keep our children that sex had us procreate alive-[2]. To hopefully meet a prospective new beautiful lover-[3]. Sex does indeed make our world interesting and intriguing in more ways than one. It is also why we do our best to look good at all times,representing ourselves which involves sex appeal and sexiness.                                                                                                                   
           If you have ever been through the trauma of a breakup with someone you thought you loved, and lived with, you know that during the disagreeable times there was no sex, no touching, only animosity which made sex a no no, which in turn led to more angst as any chance of happiness went out the window.  Without sex- no reconciling, no chance of happiness. True or false? You be the judge.                                                                                  
          Rejection gives birth to resentment in most cases of discord. Which one of us as humans , welcomes rejection with relish? None. In fact our Lord and savior Jesus the Christ said in Matthew 10 vs 33: "But whosoever shall deny me before men, him will I also deny before my father which is in heaven". Since God and Christ don't take too kindly to rejection why should man who is made in the 'image' and likeness of God? Granted, rejection is a must sometimes, because not everybody will get along, some people like others that do not have the same feelings for them. In such cases as heartbreaking as it may seem, those that got denied must seek for someone whose feelings for them will be mutual, or they will never get that chance for happiness [and sex].                                                             
           Ever got lovesick so bad that you lose your appetite? Wanting to be with that special someone and not being able to? And to make matters worse any chance for you to sex that individual got kicked to the curb and your insides just churns around your stomach. Never a good feeling.                                                                                                          
           Love is a spiritual bond that heightens the feeling of happiness, just as long as it's accompanied with sex. Tell the woman you would like to get next to, you love her and not try to have sexual relations with her, and she will think something is wrong with you. If a woman tells a man she is in love with him, makes no mention of marriage or gives him the brush off every time that he tries to initiate intimate contact, he will definitely put her to the curb. She'd have to go.                                                                                       

          In the 'Greek scriptures' [the New Testament] marriage to one wife is advocated in the book of Timothy. [1st Timothy 1 vs 2]. Also in the book of 1st Corinthians chapter 7,everything points to one woman one man marriage systems. {Author's note}-Called  the Greek scriptures, because of Ptolemy, one of Alexander the Greeks generals, had  over 70 Hebrew scholars translate the original Hebrew to Greek. The Roman Empire, an off shoot of the Greeks, hence the term Greco-Roman Empire, was in ruler ship of the known world at the time of the birth and death of Christ.Alexander's era was also the first known and written records of the Caucasian peoples taking over the known earth. [Interesting to note is the fact that the Greeks were then known for anal sex, a term used for sodomitic sex].A fact that some Greeks are still proud of to this day.                                                       
           In Deuteronomy chap 23 vs 17 , the law states as follows;"There shall be no whore of the daughters of Israel, nor a sodomite [homosexual] of the sons of Israel". Anal sex is sodomy, a crime that God himself burned up Sodom [for whom the sin is named after] and Gomorrah for committing. There are still laws on the books even to this day against such deeds. We should not however lose sight of our moral and ethic consciences for the sake of the ultimate feel good of sex.                                                                                 

          There are still people who still either unwittingly or knowingly violate some of these laws that were written for us to not have a free for all sexual willy nilly type atmosphere where anything goes. {As is evidenced by today's sexual mores}. In some families, a man may be with the daughter of a family and she by virtue of gossip, tells her sister/s and mother that the man has 'good dick'. Curiosity being aroused, through no fault of his own, mother, sister/s and even Auntie find a way to be with the man and have sexual trysts with him to find out if it was true that  he had 'good dick'.                                          
           The advent of hardcore pornography being available on a large scale has only helped to lower the moral standard that was upheld in time past. The Idea of a man having sex with an entire family of women is now viewed as an entertaining adventure. Because of the competition by women to get a man before he becomes a homo straight out, [down low fags are another subject], women have embraced receiving anal sex along with vaginal sex to and in an effort to keep the men.                                                                   
           What was once the ultimate feel good and guaranteed to help repopulate the planet has been subtly used to turn us all aside into deviant sexual behavior. Heck, I'd be lying if I said I didn't have a few aberrant practices to do with women myself,{ we'll leave that behind closed doors where it belongs, ha ha}, but you get the drift of what I am saying here.                                                                                                                               
           You could have all the money in the world and no one to make love to you or visa versa, it will be the same as if you're broke with no one to love or to make love to you. You could be laughing at all the Kat Williams /Kevin Hart jokes 24/7, but without that special someone to share it with, it is simply futile. So in getting to the basics, happiness and love is a rarity without sex, the ultimate feel good. So until the next time, live well, be happy, make love, we bid you Peace.

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